Eed Celebrations

16. 'EED-AL-FITR
by Jalaal Abu Ar-Rubb
"For every people there is a feast and this is our feast"said the Prophet (S) to Aboo Bakr (R). [Bukhaaree and Muslim]. "Our feast" has a great meaning for Musl ims because it tells us that these are our own and derived from our Sharee'ah al one. Since holidays are usually based on religious traditions, it is very import ant that we demonstrate our celebrations with great joy and gathering to make us feel that they are our own, and to feel that they are different from the Mushr iks' holidays. We do not celebrate Christmas, Hanuka or any other pagan festival s and our thanks are given to Allaah (T) alone.
The Prophet (S) has ordered us in numerous speeches to be different from the Mus hrik's (pagans), and these two "Eeds" are among that the Prophet (S) wanted us t o take special care of being different with them. That is why he said, after see ing that the people of Madeenah had two holidays which they celebrated before I slaam, " Allaah (S) has given you better than those (feasts): The 'Eed-al-Adhaa (Sacrificing) and the 'Eed- al-Fitr". [Ahmad, Aboo Dawood and Nasaa'ee].
The 'Eed-al-Adhaa comes after completing the "Hajj" (Pilgrimage) and the 'Eed-al -Fitr comes after the fasting in the month of Ramadaan. So it is not surprising that we must show and demonstrate our holidays ('Eed). Due to these clear facts, Muslim scholars put great emphasis on the concept of being different from the M ushrik in our ceremonies.
This is because ceremonies have great effect over the human mind and behaviour. Being different in our ceremonies means also that we must not participate in the Mushriks' ceremonies on their holidays. 'Umar (R) said: "Do not learn the langu age of the Mushriks - without a necessity- nor enter the churches of Mushriks on their festivals because the anger of Allaah descends on them."[Bayhaqee].
We, Muslims, may even fast on the Mushriks' holidays. Umm Salamah (R) said the P rophet (S) used to fast on Saturdays and Sundays, and when asked he said: They are two days of the Mushriks' holidays so I like to oppose them in their ceremon ies " [Ahmad and Nasaaee]
To assess this concept of being different from the Mushriks, it is very importan t to say that: In order to be different in our ceremonies in the way the Prophet (S) wanted us to be, we must follow the Sunnah literally. That would give us th e deeds of being true followers of the Prophet (S).
So if we want to be his followers we must be aware of Bid'ah in these ceremonies . Bid'ah comes at the expense of Sunnah which is replaced by it. Ibn Taymiyah sa ys: "There is no place in the heart for both Sunnah and Bid'ah." [Al-Iqtidaa] .A llaah says (which means):
{Say - O Muhammad - If you really do love Allaah follow me, Allaah will love yo u.} [Aali-Imraan, 3:31]
We present to you, dear brothers and sisters, some of the Sunnahs of Eed so that you can try to implement them. Also presented are some of the Bid'ahs of Eed so that we can avoid them. It is of great importance to follow the Sunnah of Eed s o we can truly say that our feasts are different from the Mushriks' feasts.
Sunnahs of 'Eed
1) It is Sunnah to dress in the best clothes we have on Eed. It was narrated tha t Ibn 'Umar used to do that along with other Companions of the Prophet (S). [Fat h al-Baaree]
2) It is a must (Waajib) to pray Eed al-Fitr Prayer. The Prophet (S) and his Com panions never ceased doing it, and they even gathered the people for it includin g women who were having their menses, children and the elderly. [Bukhaaree and M uslim]
3) It is Sunnah to eat dates before we leave for Eed prayer to show that we are not fasting. " The Prophet (S) used not to leave for Eed Prayer (except) after e ating some dates." [Bukhaaree and Ahmad]
4) It is Sunnah to say Takbeer loudly when leaving our homes to go to Eed Prayer . The Prophet (S) used to say this until he finished the Prayer. [Silsilat Al-ah adeeth As-Sunnah]
5) There is no Hadeeth related to Rasoolullaah (S) as to what should be said whe n reciting Takbeer on the way to Prayer, but Ibn Mas'ood used to say the follow ing:
Allaahu Akbar (Twice) Allaah is great
Laa Illaha Illallaaha There is none worthy of worship except Allaah
Allaahu Akbar (Twice) Allaah is great
Wa Lillaahil Hamd And to Him belongs all Praise
[Reported by Ibn Abee Sh aybah]
6) The Sunnah for Eed Prayers is to pray in the Musallah (that is in an uncovere d place) and not in the Masjid. The Prophet (S) never prayed Eed Prayer in the Masjid. Aboo Sa'eed (R) reported: " The Prophet (S) used to go on the day of 'Eed -al-Fitr and Eed-al-Adhaa to the Musallah, and the first thing he did was to pra y." [Bukhaaree and Muslim]
7) Neither Adhaan nor Iqaamah are pronounced for Eed Prayer. [Muslim]
8) Ibn Abbaas reported: "The Prophet (S) prayed two Raka'ahs for the Eed prayer and did not pray before it or after it." [Bukhaaree]
9) Jabir (R) reported: "The Prophet (S) used to come back from 'Eed-al-Fitr on a path other than the one used in going to it." [Bukhaaree]
10) It is permitted to listen to songs (without music) on 'Eed day especially fo r children. [Bukhaaree and Muslim]
Bid'ahs of 'Eed
It is Bid'ah (innovation in Deen):
1) To shave the beards especially for 'Eed. The Prophet (S) has ordered us not t o shave our beards; so it is a shame that, on this great day of demonstrating o ur differences in ceremonies to those of the Mushriks, that some Muslim shaves his beard so that he looks "clean" like the Mushriks.
2) To imitate the Mushriks in their practices and dress, and to shake hands with women. The Prophet (S) said: "It is better that a man is hit with needle on his head than to touch a woman who is not lawful for him." [Silsilat al-Ahaadeeth a s-Sunnah]
3) To listen to music on 'Eed. The Prophet (S) said:"There will be some in my na tion who will regard adultery, men dressing in silk, drinking intoxicants (al-Kh amr), and musical instruments to be lawful." [Bukhaaree, Abu Dawood and Bayhaqee ]
4) For women not to wear Hijaab. To do so is to celebrate 'Eed while committing a major sin.
5) To visit the graveyard especially on Eed. It is permitted to visit the gravey ard all year long so we should not make a special case out of it on 'Eed;
6) To waste money and being extravagant with food instead of giving them to poor