During my period my husband asked me to let him rub the head of his erect penis against my anal sphincter so that he could feel pleasure until he ejaculated. Is this permissible in Islam?.
Praise be to Allaah.
are agreed that it is haraam to have intercourse with a menstruating woman
in her vagina, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
away from women during menses and go not unto them till they are purified
(from menses and have taken a bath).”
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Do
everything except intercourse.” Narrated by Muslim (455). Al-Nawawi narrated
that there was consensus on this point.
It is haraam
to have intercourse with a woman in her back passage, because Allaah says
(interpretation of the meaning):
they have purified themselves, then go in unto them as Allaah has ordained
for you (go in unto them in any manner as long as it is in their vagina)”
i.e., in the
front passage, which is the place of tilth. This is confirmed by the verse
in which Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
wives are a tilth for you, so go to your tilth, when or how you will”
passage is not the place of tilth.
ahaadeeth which indicate that it is haraam to have intercourse with a woman
in her back passage. It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be
pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of
Allaah be upon him) said: “Cursed be the one who has intercourse with his
wife in her back passage.” Narrated by Ahmad and Abu Dawood (2162); classed
as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood.
question no. 1103.
have stated that it is permissible to enjoy that which is between a woman’s
thighs and between the buttocks, without penetrating the back passage.
al-Shaafa’i said in al-Umm (8/257):
to enjoying what is between the buttocks without penetrating, there is
nothing wrong with that. End quote.
said in al-Mughni (7/226):
nothing wrong with enjoying that which is between the buttocks without
penetrating, because the Sunnah forbids the back passage, and applies only
to that. And it is haraam because it is harmful, and that applies only to
the back passage, so the prohibition applies only to that. End quote.
It says in
husband is allowed to enjoy of his wife:
He may enjoy
everything except her anal sphincter, even that which is between the
buttocks. As for enjoying the anal sphincter it is haraam to have
intercourse there, because of the report which says: “Allaah is not too shy
to tell the truth; do not have intercourse with women in their back
passages.” Narrated and classed as saheeh by al-Shaafa’i. End quote.
It says in
Asna al-Mataalib (3/185):
“As for having intercourse in her anal sphincter…” – such as if part of the
tip of the penis disappears into it. End quote.
this, there is nothing wrong with what was asked about, subject to the
condition that there be no risk of the tip of the penis or part of it
entering the back passage, for that is haraam.